In my experience hate doesn’t solve anything but makes things worse. Therefore I try to love those who complicate my life. If I can’t love I settle with indifference. Which seems better than hating. Love has a way of solving problems. Not always right away but with time. Plus, there’s no excitement or pleasure in harassing someone who is always pleasant and forgiving. They don’t say kill ’em with kindness for no reason…Love your enemies!