The choices we make determine our quality of life. Those who are wise have mastered the art of putting their emotions to the side to make the best choice. They observe and learn from their experiences and the experiences of others. Create a good technique to help you sort through your feelings, become clear minded, reflect, and make wiser decisions.
My son, do not let wisdom and understanding out of your sight, preserve sound judgment and discretion; they will be life for you, an ornament to grace your neck. (Proverbs 3:21-22)
wise: (1) Having or showing wisdom or knowledge usually from learning or experiencing many things. (2) Based on good reasoning or information. Showing good sense or judgment. (definition from merriam-webster.com)